Article Type : Research Article
Authors : Nsangou HN and Tcholahie PW
Keywords : Siblings; Family; Sibling; Sickle cell disease; Cameroon
Sickle-cell disease is the most widespread genetic disease in the world, and it confronts the sick child and his or her family with painful, unpredictable and chronic crises, multiple hospitalisations that are costly for the family, and the thought of imminent death. The disease is a taboo and a trauma in Cameroonian families, where only children are rare. This article examines the experiences of siblings of children with sickle cell disease in Cameroonian families where this disease is a taboo and where the meaning given to the disease is based on both modern and traditional references. Its aim is to improve the psychological care of children with the disease and their families by taking into account the psychological relationship that siblings and families of children affected with the disease have with this disease, the care of the sick child and the sick child himself.
Sickle
cell disease is the most common genetic disease in the world. It is a disease
which confronts families with the child's repeated, intense and unpredictable
crises, and with his or her death, thought to be imminent and inevitable, which
is a taboo in Cameroonian families where it is difficult to find families with
an only child. The brothers and sisters of children with sickle cell disease
witness their crises on a daily basis and the behaviour of their family members
in the face of these crises. They see their brother/sister transform during
crises in a family context where sickle cell disease is taboo. This research
examines the experiences of the brothers and sisters of children with sickle
cell disease with regard to the disease, the child with the disease and the
child's care.
General information on sickle
cell disease
Sickle
cell disease (SCD) is a genetic, chronic, lethal and taboo disease in Africa.
It is the most common genetic disease in the world, with around 500 million
people carrying the sickle cell trait and 50 million affected worldwide [1].
Initially found in malaria-endemic areas such as sub-Saharan Africa, migratory
movements of populations have gradually modified its distribution around the
world. Since then, the disease has been present in virtually all countries with
populations originating from Africa and the Mediterranean region [2]. Unlike in
most Western countries, such as France, where it is a rare disease [3], SCD is
highly prevalent in almost all African countries. Africa
is the continent most affected by SCD, with a prevalence rate of 2% in the
general population and an estimated mortality rate of over 70% in children
under 5 [4]. With a prevalence rate of
8.34% in the general population, Cameroon is one of the countries most affected
by this disease [5]. In Africa, SCD is expensive to treat, and the
unavailability of bone marrow transplants and gene therapy, the only effective
treatment for the disease, means that many children under the age of 5 die [6].
Discovered
in the United States of America in 1910, SCD is an autosomal recessive disease
transmitted to children by both parents. It is caused by the presence of
abnormal haemoglobin in the blood, which results in a shortage of oxygen to the
body's various organs via the red blood cells, which have a reduced lifespan.
The rapid destruction of red blood cells leads to anaemia and chronic,
unpredictable pain with which the patient identifies himself [7], resulting in
multiple hospitalisations and costly treatment for the parents of affected
children [8], who often have a traditional representation of the disease.
The
specificities of families adjustment with SCD
In
Cameroonian families, sickle cell disease is seen in terms of persecution,
guilt and taboo.
Sickle
cell disease, a figure of persecution for familie
In
the cultural context of sub-Saharan Africa, illness is seen as an
"evil" capable of attacking all members of the family, even after the
death of the patient [9]. Sick children live in a society structured by
traditional prohibitions, rites and attitudes, of which women are the guardians
[10]. A child's illness or disability is part of this cultural structure, which
gives it meaning and produces effects. SCD is seen as a manifestation of the
possession of the sick child and his family by a sorcerer or evil spirit [11].
Depending on the case, it may also be experienced as a request from the
ancestors to the patient's family to make amends for a transgression of an
ancestral norm [11]. Generally, the mother is held responsible for this
transgression; the over-protection of the affected child, by her and by the
members of the family, constitutes a defence enabling them to relieve
themselves of guilt and to inscribe the sick child in the history of the family
[1].
SCD:
a family taboo
Talking
about SCD is taboo in African families or families of African origin [2]. As a
result, children suffering from this disease often have difficulty talking
about their illness and verbalising their experiences [12]. Parents hide the
name of the disease from some or all of their children, and children hide their
knowledge of the disease from their parents [13]. For the children, this taboo
is a means of protecting their parents, and for the parents it is a desire not
to add to their children's suffering. Parents also use this taboo as a means of
protecting their sick children from social and family stigmatisation [13].
Parents
are pessimistic about their child's future and want to continue to invest that
future with hope. They may therefore think that not talking about the disease
protect the children. This way, they develop a family fantasy to protect their
child from this disastrous future and from the death of this child, thought to
be imminent and unpredictable [14].
Specific features of the family
and siblings in Cameroon
The
African family is a highly complex reality that transcends biological
considerations. It is based more on the social rules of alliance and filiation
than on blood ties, biology and parenthood. The family is built around a set of
values and norms. The Cameroonian family is essentially thought of as an
ethical reference based on the subject's feeling of belonging to a group. As
such, it is trans-spatial and transcultural.
A Cameroonian may have a village family, a city family, a university
family or a neighbourhood family [11]. From the "family spirit"
obviously flows what is known as the "sibling spirit". As a result, a
friend, a classmate or the child of a family friend is often considered a
brother in the African context. This makes African siblings, in general, and
Cameroonian siblings, in particular, complex. This complexity can be understood
by the fact that in Cameroon, those who educate, protect or in any way promote
the subject's personal fulfilment are often considered to be family members.
However, the Cameroonian family has not withstood the social changes brought
about by its encounter with the Western world (colonisation, globalisation).
African families have preserved certain cultural values such as polygamy and
the maintenance of the life of the family group through the birth of several
children; "life is man" [15]. They have also opened up to modernity
by gradually applying family planning. In Cameroonian, tradition is neither
passed nor outdated [11]. Individual behaviour is still marked by identifiable
traditional elements. These families have neither resisted nor surrendered to
modernity. They are at once modern and traditional, neither modern nor
traditional. They are therefore in the middle ground between modernity and
tradition. The parents of the affected child, supported by the members of their
respective extended families, seek ways to alleviate the child's suffering.
With the advent of globalisation, they turn to a number of therapies. The
therapeutic itinerary is, in this sense, a sort of mosaic between traditional
therapies and imported therapies such as Western therapies and messianic,
religious therapies, so to speak [16]. The traditional therapist, the doctor
and the imam, pastor or priest are consulted, usually at the same time. The
system of "care in the round" [17] perfectly sums up the therapeutic
path taken by most sub-Saharan African families. With each therapist, they seek
to heal the child's specific suffering. In fact, the quest for meaning in the
child's illness and the quest for ancestral protection and reconciliation with
the ancestors lead them to the traditional therapists. With the priest, the
pastor or the Imam, they seek divine therapy to ensure the protection of the
Supreme Being. They generally do this because they want the child to be cured
under God's mercy. With the doctor, they seek the child's somatic healing.
These families are on a permanent quest to rebuild their identity [18]. The
identity of Africans remains highly complex. They find it hard to define themselves;
they are neither westernised nor African. As a result of the effects of
globalisation, Cameroon is constantly seeking its own identity [11]. There are
several types of family in Cameroon: nuclear families, extended families,
polygamous families and monogamous families [19]. So Cameroonian families are
both traditional and modern. This reflects the diversity and complexity of
Cameroonian families. These different types of family give rise to different
types of siblings (blended, large, nuclear).
Talking
about sickle cell disease in the siblings of a child with the disease
Children
learn from their parents a way of being and being a sibling; they also
understand what it is appropriate to do, say and think as a family, and again,
by means of explicit and more often than not implicit prohibitions, they learn
to keep quiet about some things and not to think about others [20]. The
brothers and sisters of children with sickle cell disease keep their suffering
about their sibling's disability a secret from their parents, the sick child
and other siblings. They do so, supported by the family taboo maintained by the
parents around the disability, so as not to exacerbate the suffering of those
to whom this suffering is not told [2]. For these children, this taboo is a
sign of recognition of the suffering of the members of the family group and a
specific way of dealing with this suffering, which is then marked by emotional
isolation. Every
sibling, whether or not they include a disabled child, is the fruit of a weaving
process in which the parents have provided both the weave and the technique.
The parents' history and culture lead them to pass on to their children what it
means to be "a brother", "a sister", "an elder",
"a younger". Based on this "know-how" and "know-how to
be", each child, interacting with the dynamics of his or her peer group,
first applies the "basic technique" and then gradually develops it
further [20].
The
feelings experienced by the brothers and sisters of the sick child
We
met sisters and brothers (aged of 8-19 years old) of children with sickle cell
disease in Cameroun with the aim to describe their complex feelings about their
sick child and his or her illness. The analysis of interviews gave following
results.
The
painful feeling of strangeness and isolation
Because
of the family taboo on SCD, the sick child and his or her illness are a
stranger to brothers and sisters. They find it hard to think about him and to
imagine him. Brothers and sisters do not understand what the patient is going
through. The strangeness of the patient hinders the siblings' process of
identification and differentiation with the patient, and makes them feel
powerless and angry at the patient for not telling them what he or she is going
through with the disease. The suffering of the brothers and sisters of children
with SCD lies in the inability of the latter to tell the former what they are
feeling and experiencing as a result of their illness. For the brothers and
sisters, this suffering reflects their desire to have power over their
brother's illness, to give it meaning through a precise representation of his
attacks. It also reflects their impaired projective identification with the
patient. The patient remains a strange person who causes them suffering and a feeling
of powerlessness. Obviously, not understanding what the sick brother is going
through with his illness, not understanding what is happening in his body, not
being able to imagine his attacks, leads the brothers and sisters to ask
questions about themselves, about their own identity, when we know that
children build their identity through processes of identification and
differentiation from others. SCD, through its crises, alters the process of
identification and differentiation with the patient in the siblings. This
causes them psychological suffering. The brothers and sisters of children with
sickle cell disease, parentified by their parents in monitoring the child and
preventing crises, experience a feeling of emotional isolation. This feeling is
due to the fact that they are not given the opportunity to tell the patient,
the brothers and sisters who are not sick, or the parents, what they are
experiencing in terms of this way of being and being a sibling with the sick
child.
The
complex feeling of guilt
The
children's experience of guilt is complex. Doriane feels responsible for Marc's
illness and seizures, on the one hand because her mother had warned her about
the risks and she had failed to keep a close eye on her siblings, and on the
other because she feels guilty for resenting this vulnerable child. Joseph sees
himself as both a victim and a perpetrator of Mark's illness and behaviour.
Partly as a result of this guilt, Doriane and Joseph are angry with Marc, who
occupies a central place in the family, who causes them torment and who puts
them in the position of not knowing/being able to be a good sister and a good
daughter/son. The siblings, as a result of their aggressive behaviour towards
the child with the disorder, often believe themselves to be primarily
responsible for the child's outbursts. Doriane feels responsible for her
Brother Marc's seizures, which she associates with her own aggressive behaviour
towards him. "When I hit him, my anger diminishes. But when his illness
starts up again, it's as if it's because I hit him that his illness starts up
again", she says. She knows that she has transgressed the family norm of
protecting Marc in a cultural context where it is the daughter's duty to look
after her brothers and sisters. While this aggression temporarily soothes her,
it gives rise to painful guilt. If they feel guilty, the brothers and sisters
also feel that the adults are "making" them guilty for things for
which they alone are responsible. They also know that the adult, unhappy and
powerless, can unleash anger and aggression on children who are not ill, which
the child has to accept without being able to fight back. Doriane’s visits to
her brother's hospital led her to realise that the disease is transmitted
genetically to the child by both parents. She recognises that the mother is
responsible for the disease. As a result, she refuses to be designated by the
mother as responsible for her brother's illness and believes that the mother
should assume her responsibilities in caring for the patient. In this way, she
refused to be parentified by her mother. Girls were more involved than boys in
caring for their sick child. This difference is linked to the fact that the
education system for girls in Cameroonian families aims to make them women capable
of taking good care of their children's health and education. While brothers
and sisters feel abandoned by their families, sisters are less likely to
express their feelings of loneliness. This leads to differences in the
children's experiences of the disease and the child with it. As a result, the
sisters feel more responsible for the crises, unlike the brothers who feel more
victimised by them.
The
worrying question of death
The
question of death is very present among the children, who raise it without too
much resistance. They talk about the fact that their sick brother might die,
with the idea that this death might not make the illness go away. Indeed, if
their brother dies, the disease could affect them. The ideas that unaffected
children have about death often stem from their curiosity about what adults
have to say about the disease and/or the affected brother or sister. Ornelle,
the older sister of a child with the disease, whom she often assists during
hospital stays, explains: "The doctors have said that he's going to stay
with his disease until the end. He's going to die with his disease. The other
day, when my uncle came to the house, he also said that the disease believes
that if it kills Marc, it won't also die with him”. This "transfer"
of the illness can occur when the affected child dies or when he or she
recovers. But as recovery is not envisaged, only death leads to another child
embodying the disease. She says this even though she knows that the disease is
genetic and not "contagious" in the strict sense of the term. What
she knows about the "medical reality" of the disease coexists with
the meaning and functions that her culture attributes to this
"disease". Children are afraid not only for the patient but also, probably,
for themselves, in a complex process of identification. Children have
difficulty coping with the fear they experience on a daily basis because of the
iterative, unpredictable and severe nature of their brother's or sister's
attacks.Ornella, talking about the fear she experiences regarding her brother
with the disease, says: "It's always with me, even when he's well. I know
that everything can change in a single second". So she never feels
secured, always on the alert, even in hospital. She includes the patient's
death in this "everything". Unaffected children express a complex
desire for the death of their affected child. This desire is based both on
reality (expenditure on care, fear generated by strange seizures) and fantasies
(he won't survive). These children therefore oscillate between the desire and
the fear of death for the sick child who, despite his illness, remains 'other',
the same; to desire his death is, ultimately, to evoke one's own death in a
process of self/other confusion, generally at work in siblings [21]. Moreover,
the physiological/body transformations of the sick child during his seizures
arouse or reactivate in his brothers and sisters the fear/desire of death but
also a feeling of strangeness in the face of this 'same as oneself' who is
being transformed.
The
question of care and the relationship with care
Sick
children are treated using both traditional African medicine and conventional
Western medicine. Although complementary, these medical practices are
experienced differently by the siblings
Conventional
Western medicine
The
hospital is seen as having a curative function for the seizures of the affected
child, given as a matter of urgency. Generally, the family only seeks hospital
care after self-medication has failed and preventive measures have been
implemented to avoid or relieve the child's seizures. Obviously, this behaviour
on the part of the family is an adaptation to the costly nature of care in a
context where care is not reimbursed and health insurance is not accessible
[22] to most families. This poses the problem of preventing seizures by
children with SCD attending day hospitals in sub-Saharan Africa in general, and
in Cameroon in particular. Seizures
in children with sickle cell disease are treated in hospital by transfusion,
which relieves them for a time without eliminating them. Only the affected
child receives medical care. The children recognise the effectiveness of this
treatment in temporarily relieving their child's attacks. This arouses and/or
reinforces their fear of death. Paulette's illness is thought of as a
"blood disease" by Jules, her younger brother, who believes that the
"sick" blood should be drained from Paulette's body. "For it to
end, you have to drain all the blood from your body. That's how you get rid of
the disease". In his opinion, hospital care professionals do not do this,
because they put new blood into the sick child's body and do nothing about the
"bad" blood in her body. Hospital care professionals are
designated by Jules as the "responsible party" for the chronicity of
the crises and disqualified from the process of definitive relief of these
crises. This recognition of the ineffectiveness of hospital care arouses his
anger at these professionals, whom he sees as ineffective in preventing his
sister's worsening condition. It's possible that through this anger, Jules is
projecting onto these professionals his feelings of powerlessness regarding his
sister's crises and the concomitant feelings of guilt. It can also be
understood as a demand for recognition and acknowledgement of his experiences
by medical professionals.
Siblings
also feel rejected and disregarded by medical professionals, who focus their
care on the affected child. This situation arouses in them a feeling of anger
towards the carers. This feeling is a sign of their desire not only to be
recognised as brothers and sisters of the child with the disease, but also to
be cared for and supported as such by medical staff.
Traditional African Medicine
Unlike
conventional Western hospital carers, traditional practitioners care for both
the child with SCD and his or her siblings. The sick child, his brothers and
sisters, his parents and extended family are cared for by the traditional
healer because the illness is seen as the illness of the patient and his
family. The traditional healer treats the patient's body, which is thought to
be possessed by 'evil', an evil that manifests itself in the patient as chronic
disease and attacks of pain. These symptoms tell the traditional healer about
the extent of possession and persecution of the sick child's body by the
sorcerers. In response to this possession/persecution, the traditional healer
administers bodily care to the patient and members of his family. For the
siblings of the sick child, there is a before and an after to taking the
traditional treatment. A "non-secure" before, where the threat of
contamination by the disease looms large, and a more "secure" after,
where this threat is contained by taking the traditional treatment. The children
experience this treatment as protection against contamination by the
disease. Taking this treatment is
associated with a reduction in fear about the disease and being infected by it.
However, the fear of death in the sick child did not disappear in his brothers
and sisters after taking the traditional treatment; it was reduced. This
treatment has led them to experience their bodies as less vulnerable and more
resistant to the disease. As a result, they feel safer from the disease and
from the witch doctors. From then on, this treatment helped them to contain
their feelings of persecution by the witch doctors and their fear of being
infected by the disease, but did not eliminate this fear. Talking about his
sister's traditional care, Jules says that "wounds were made on her
body". Parts of her body were scarified. Scarification of the painful
parts of the patient's body allows the therapist to act directly on the evil,
to limit the destruction of the patient's body by the sorcerers. By scarifying
the painful parts of the patient's body, the therapist administers a powder
with magical powers that is effective against sorcerers. From then on, the aim
of treating the patient was curative, with the aim of "freeing" the
patient from possession and persecution by the witches. So it's not just the
blood that's treated here, but also the body. Paulette was accompanied to the
traditional practitioner by her mother and her paternal uncle. Her brothers and
sisters, who were not present at the consultation, received the treatment given
by the traditional therapist through their uncle. Jules mentioned the fact that
his maternal uncle had scarified him and his other siblings, who did not have
sickle cell disease, with the powder given to him by the traditional
practitioner. As the father had died, it was the paternal uncle who went with
the mother and the sick child to the tradi-pratician's consultation. This shows
the involvement of the extended family in traditional care and supports the
mother in this approach. The uncle is also an intermediary between the
traditional practitioner and the family. He is responsible for He is
responsible for supervising the application of traditional treatments. Like the
sick sister, Jules was scarified by his paternal uncle, at the request of the
traditional healer. The treatment was administered orally and by scarification
of the back and sell. "Even my
mother and older sister ate the same medicine. We ate and then the rest was put
in our blood". Paulette's brother, sister and mother, who were considered
to be at risk of becoming ill and being persecuted by witch doctors, were also
treated for sickle cell disease by the traditional healer. The aim of this
treatment is to protect them against the disease. For Jules, the patient's
blood is dead blood, blood 'possessed' by sorcerers. In this sense, it is
"bad blood" that attacks the "good blood" transfused to the
patient during hospitalisation following anaemic crises. According to him, this
explains the chronic anaemia and recurring bouts of pain suffered by his sick
sister. The traditional treatment is thus thought to be effective against
sorcerers. It makes the patient's blood and that of non-patients unassailable
by the sorcerers. Taking it reduces the feeling of persecution by the witches,
even if the sick sister dies. "They won't look for me anymore", he
says. The traditional treatment is thus seen as protection against attacks by
witches, against illness and, of course, against the death of the sick sister
and against his own death. Taking the traditional treatment leads Jules to say
of the sorcerers that "It's all over for them, everyone has eaten the
remedy, everyone is armoured", and to specify that "When the
sorcerers enter the family, they don't come out any more". This ambivalence
in relation to the traditional treatment (protection and vulnerability) in the
face of witches suggests that the feeling of security against witches that
Jules talks about remains apparent, that he is constantly experiencing a
feeling of insecurity that is never really eliminated.
Conclusion
This
research shows the need for professionals to remain extremely sensitive to the
way in which the experience of the disease is embedded in the family and
sibling psyche of children confronted with sickle cell disease in their
brother/sister in Cameroon. Taking into account the clinical and cultural data
presented here can help to make the family and siblings a resource for the
child with SCD, his/her parents and siblings, as well as for carers confronted
with this lethal disease. Discussion spaces between the sick child, his or her
brothers and sisters, parents and healthcare professionals within institutions
can help to achieve this objective and reduce the potentially harmful effect of
the family taboo on sickle cell disease on the sick child, his or her brothers
and sisters and even his or her parents. The denial pact can have a protective
effect, temporarily, for the sick child, his parents and siblings, if it does
not last too long. However, this space for discussion should be built by all
the participants, who should (beforehand or gradually) understand the benefits
for each of them.
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